also, ive read up on my magic a bit, and since ive read that elves use life energy for spells it says that they don't need a check to see if it was successful so long as it is my level. what spells can a druid elf do or is it just the ones in the classes list?
Not exactly. Certain spells use elven life energy; this is true regardless of who casts them. The rest of the spells do not… again, regardless of who casts them. The spells that do make use of life energy have (L) next to them in their descriptions on the "Magic" thread. There aren't very many of them.
All other spells… cast at your own risk.
You can only choose spells from your own class at start. With a WIS of 16, you'd choose four Level 0 spells and three Level 1 spells. Those will be the only ones you can cast at first; you can learn others as the game goes on.
Grandmaster
Mythic Scribe
Valar Lord